What can we learn about personal and professional change from the popular reality show “The Biggest Loser”; a show that focuses on losing weight? How do these ordinary people go about losing amazing amounts of weight and in so doing change their lives in such relatively short periods of time?
Learning #1: No deep and lasting change can come about without a deep and heartfelt motivation.
Why would anyone put themselves through the trauma of life change (in this case weight loss) without a strong motivation, a deep purpose? Most of the contestants are motivated by health concerns, if they don’t take action to change they will die prematurely. Some are motivated by wanting to be alive for their children and families. Others are motivated by wanting to be able to do things that other people are doing, things that their obesity prevents.
The motivations vary; but when the work begins, once every ounce of commitment the contestant has, is called for; the “for sake of what” they are doing this, becomes their pillar of strength. It keeps them going when their bodies say “Quit.”
Learning #2: Having a coach who knows what it takes to make change happen can help you through the process and increase the chances of your success.
It is the coach who educates the contestants about nutrition and diet. It is the coach who gets to know the individual’s motivation, their weaknesses and strengths, and sets up a regimen of weight loss for them. It is the coach who reminds the contestants of their motivation, their “for sake of what” when they feel like giving up. It is the coach who encourages them, comforts them when they fall short of their goals, and celebrates even the smallest victories with them. There is no doubt that this can be done alone; but the coaches definitely increases the chances of success and help things happen more quickly.
Learning #3: Creating collegial teams that support each other as we experience the trauma and difficulties of change is an important element of success.
Contestants bond with their fellow team mates who are experiencing the new diets, the new workout regimens and the aches, pains, and pangs of hunger that go with them. Having a team to support them also allows for the hugs and words of encouragement that contestants need when they get homesick, tired, or discouraged. It is a different type of connection than that given by the coach. The change team is sharing common emotions and common experiences from the learners point of view.
Learning #4: Nothing is more important than adopting new practices.
Simply put, without creating new eating habits and new exercise habits, the contestants will not lose weight. No matter how much they are motivated to lose weight, it requires a deep commitment to take on new practices. Highly motivated contestants can practice without a coach and, although it is more difficult, can succeed. Contestants can lose weight without team mates. Contestants can lose weight without being on the Biggest Loser Campus…but they cannot lose weight if they continue eating and exercising the way they always have.
Learning #5: By “being the change” we inspire others to change.
The contestants who participate in “The Biggest Loser” transform their lives spiritually and physically. Those that entered with damaged self-images, lack of confidence, and a general feeling of being “less than” other people; leave appreciating what they have done, the sacrifices they have made, the commitments they have kept, the discipline and will they have demonstrated, the perseverance and courage they have showed. Interestingly, these are some of the fundamental qualities of leadership!
Not only have they lost weight but they have changed their perceptions of themselves from “losers” to “winners”. Yes, the weight loss is the outer success; but the inner success is even more important because now they have learned that they can apply these inner qualities to other things. They know that they can accomplish anything.
And the additional beauty of this is that by changing themselves, by demonstrating that they could do this…they inspire the rest of us to try.
If we apply these 5 elements of weight loss success to our own development as leaders, to our own journeys as agents of educational change; we will make a huge difference to ourselves and those we lead.
pete
Note: For another twist on the theme of weight loss and leadership transformation see Miguel Guhlin’s post: Transforming Education: The Diet Leadership Approach.
This is very inspiring, and I will be passing it on to the leaders in my district!
I think the greatest influence a leader can offer is giving teachers time to Collaborate (a mix of #2 and #3). Provide teachers with the time and you show them that this is both valued and important... and it helps motivate as it removes the idea that this is just 'one more thing to add to my plate!'
What a fantastic analogy!
Posted by: David Truss | January 08, 2008 at 01:51 PM
Nice analogy:
Often one may think that only items #1 and #4 are available to most individuals who want to change.
Learning #1: Deep and heartfelt motivation.
Learning #4: Adopting new practices.
But, due to the various interest groups and being available to connect online, items #2, #3 and #5 are available to individuals who want to change.
Finding an online learning community is key to making a change. Six years ago I was 15 pounds heavier and with a height of 5 foot 3 inches this is a significant amount of weight. I remember sitting in a staff meeting, looking around and thinking that teaching makes one fat. This motivated me to dust off my mountain bike and hit the trails. I also realized I needed to track how much I rode, if I was going to bring about a lasting change. I knew I wasn't one to record my riding in a log book, so I looked for technological solution. I bought a Garmin Forerunner and joined a user group centered around the device. I learned training tips from the group and graphed performance data from the device. I also found new trails and people to ride with on a few websites. Now my weight fluctuates due to the amount of muscle in my legs more than the fat on my belly.
The next change I would like to make would be a switch to project based teaching. I would like to do this with lab and paper based projects first, so if computers ever become available to my students, I will be able to quickly make the change.
Posted by: Jim Cottrell | January 12, 2008 at 12:11 PM
Jim;
Interesting that you listed #2, having a teacher/coach as easily available online.
In my experience I haven't seen many educators seek out coaches to help them with personal change whether online or not.
Most folks try to do this on their own, ala reading a diet book and trying to lose weight. Others, join a group to help support them. The most successful have all three: 1) a coach/teacher 2) a book or guide 3) a support group
pete
Posted by: pete | January 13, 2008 at 10:14 AM
Just curious as to what percentage of 'Biggest Loser' contestants needed surgery to remove the excess skin after the weight loss? Wondering if that's a concern when they signed up to be on the program.
Thanks,
Posted by: greg hill | January 16, 2008 at 12:56 PM